Skip the Big Resolutions: A First Responder-Friendly Way to Build Better Wellness Habits

By David Baker

TL;DR: Instead of making major New Year’s resolutions that are hard to keep — especially with long, unpredictable first responder schedules — take a page from Benjamin Franklin’s playbook and focus on one small aspect of wellness at a time. Franklin improved himself by rotating through 13 virtues, and that same approach works for first responders: Pick one wellness “virtue” (like sleep, nutrition, movement, stress management, or boundaries), make small, realistic adjustments for a week, then move on to the next. Be sure to track your progress for accountability. Over time, these manageable changes add up to better health, greater resilience, and longer, more sustainable careers — without the burnout and guilt that come with all-or-nothing resolutions.


January 1 has a way of bringing out your inner optimist. This is the year you’ll eat clean, work out every day, get eight hours of sleep, and also somehow become immune to stress — all while working rotating 12-hour shifts in a profession fraught with stress and trauma.

Sound familiar?

New Year’s resolutions often come wrapped in big promises and absolutes: Never eat junk food again, train seven days a week, finally get everything in balance. And by mid-January, many of those resolutions are quietly forgotten, usually right around the third overtime shift in a row.

And of course, failing to keep your resolutions for the umpteenth year in a row adds yet another level of strain to an already compounding stress load.

For first responders, the problem often isn’t motivation — it’s reality. Long hours, unpredictable calls, disrupted sleep, and emotional trauma make sweeping lifestyle changes difficult to sustain.

New Year’s Day has already come and gone, so maybe you’ve already given up on resolution-based self-improvement. But here’s a different approach: Think smaller and smarter. Focus on one aspect of wellness at a time, make modest adjustments, and build momentum gradually. Small, consistent improvements beat ambitious plans that collapse under pressure and are difficult to maintain over the long term.

This idea isn’t new — and guess what? It comes from a person with deep roots in public safety history.

Benjamin Franklin: Inventor, Firefighter, Self-Improvement Nerd

Benjamin Franklin is considered by many to be the “father of U.S. firefighting” for helping to organize one of America’s very first volunteer fire companies. He is also known for promoting fire prevention, preparedness, and civic responsibility. But Franklin was also deeply interested in personal discipline and self-improvement.

Importantly, Franklin was no monk. He openly enjoyed good food and good wine. (It was actually wine, not beer, that he famously called “a constant proof that God loves us, and loves to see us happy.”) A well-known womanizer, he openly embraced a wide range of very human vices.

Franklin’s journals and letters make it clear he was fully aware of his own shortcomings and indulgences — and he didn’t pretend otherwise. That is part of what makes him so relatable. Franklin wasn’t trying to become perfect; he was simply striving to become better than he was yesterday.

Rather than attempting to fix everything at once, Franklin created a structured approach to character development. As documented in his “Autobiography,” he identified 13 virtues and focused on one per week, rotating through them over time. He freely admitted he never mastered them all, but he believed the effort itself made him happier, healthier, and more effective in his work and life.

That same incremental, forgiving philosophy fits remarkably well with modern first responder wellness — especially in a profession where perfection is impossible and the work is relentlessly demanding. It’s worth thinking about as we stare down the barrel of 2026.

So … are you up for a new kind of New Year’s resolution?

A Franklin-Inspired Approach to Wellness

Instead of making one sweeping New Year’s resolution that tries to fix everything at once, a more effective approach is to intentionally focus on one aspect of wellness at a time. Based on the virtues Franklin himself worked on in constant rotation, each one represents a common challenge for first responder wellness: sleep, nutrition, movement, stress, relationships, and recovery.

It’s important to note this is not about just “paying a little more attention” while hoping change happens in the background. It’s about deliberately prioritizing one area, putting meaningful effort into it, allowing that focus to shape daily decisions for an entire week.

The 13 first responder wellness virtues are:

  1. Temperance
  2. Silence
  3. Order
  4. Resolution
  5. Frugality
  6. Industry
  7. Sincerity
  8. Justice
  9. Moderation
  10. Cleanliness
  11. Tranquility
  12. Chastity
  13. Humility

(Yes, some of these sound a bit old-fashioned to modern ears. But keep reading … they really are relevant.)

During each week, you use the selected virtue as the primary lens through which you evaluate your choices. Training, recovery, meals, off-duty time, and boundaries are all filtered through that theme. The other areas don’t disappear, but they move into maintenance mode while attention is concentrated where it will have the most impact. At the end of the week, you do a quick self-evaluation before moving on to the next virtue, carrying forward what worked and refining what didn’t.

This rotating, single-focus approach mirrors Benjamin Franklin’s original system and reflects the reality of first responder life. It respects your limited time, unpredictable schedule, and fluctuating energy while still demanding commitment and accountability. Over the course of a year, this method allows you to address the full spectrum of wellness without overload, guilt, or burnout — and with far better odds of long-term success.

Here’s an explanation of each virtue, along with some suggested behaviors to cultivate (or avoid) as you focus on each one in succession.

1. Temperance: Fueling for the shift

For first responders, temperance means eating and drinking in a way that sustains performance across long shifts without swinging between extremes. It recognizes that perfect nutrition is rarely possible on duty, but chronic under-fueling or over-reliance on stimulants gets in the way of energy, mood, and recovery. Temperance is about consistency and adequacy — enough calories, protein, hydration, and micronutrients to support physical work, decision-making, and sleep — while avoiding patterns that lead to crashes, inflammation, or metabolic issues.

Supportive behaviors:

  • Eat something with clean protein before or early in shift.
  • Carry simple, portable foods you’ll actually eat.
  • Hydrate steadily instead of chugging late in shift.
  • Limit energy drinks, especially late in shift, and pair caffeine with food to reduce crashes.
  • Avoid skipping meals to “power through.”
  • Keep healthy snacks visible and accessible.
  • Reduce high-sugar foods during overnight hours.
  • Refuel intentionally after demanding calls.

2. Silence: Mental decompression

First responders often move from call to call without pausing to process or reset. Because of this, silence requires cultivating the intentional mental quiet in a world dominated by alarms, radios, urgency, and constant turmoil. This virtue emphasizes brief but deliberate moments of decompression that allow the brain to disengage from hypervigilance, reducing cumulative stress and emotional spillover into home life.

Supportive behaviors:

  • Create a short end-of-shift ritual, taking a quiet pause before driving home.
  • Delay phone use immediately after work.
  • Practice tactical breathing during idle moments.
  • Avoid filling every free moment with stimulation.
  • Limit doom-scrolling after shift.
  • Spend time alone without needing to “perform.”
  • Normalize silence as recovery, not withdrawal.

3. Order: Anchors in an unpredictable schedule

For first responders, order is not rigid scheduling but establishing a few dependable anchors in otherwise chaotic days. Rotating shifts and unpredictable calls disrupt sleep, meals, and family routines. As any in public safety can attest, these challenges can leave the body and mind constantly off-balance. Order provides stability through repeatable habits that cue rest, readiness, and recovery, even when start times and call volumes change.

Supportive behaviors:

  • Create and maintain a consistent pre-shift routine, and use the same wind-down routine after work.
  • Practice good sleep hygiene by creating a cool, dark environment free of distractions.
  • Schedule workouts on predictable days.
  • Prepare food or clothing in advance of shifts so you’re not scrambling to organize and pack your gear.
  • Protect sleep on off-days.
  • Avoid erratic bedtimes when possible.
  • Use checklists to reduce mental load.

4. Resolution: Commitment under constraint

Resolution is the discipline to commit to what is achievable within the realities of public safety work. It rejects all-or-nothing thinking and focuses on follow-through under less-than-ideal conditions. This virtue values consistency over intensity and recognizes that progress comes from repeatedly honoring small commitments despite fatigue, overtime, or emotional strain.

Supportive behaviors:

  • Set minimum standards instead of perfect goals.
  • Choose “Plan B” workouts you can complete when you’re tired.
  • Commit to sleep when recovery is needed.
  • Track consistency, not performance.
  • Avoid restarting plans every missed week; acknowledge the lapse and move on.
  • Adjust goals during high-stress periods.
  • Finish what you commit to, even if it’s imperfectly.
  • Build habits around your schedule, not against it.
  • Don’t let perfect be the enemy of good.

5. Frugality: Protecting limited energy

First responders routinely give more than they get, leading to burnout if boundaries are not enforced. Frugality reframes personal energy (physical, emotional, and mental) as a finite resource that needs to be protected. This virtue encourages prioritizing where energy is spent and deliberately reducing unnecessary drains so recovery can keep pace with demand.

Supportive behaviors:

  • Give yourself permission to say no to nonessential commitments.
  • When possible, limit unnecessary overtime.
  • Reduce conflict and “emotional work” when off duty.
  • Prioritize sleep over optional obligations.
  • Avoid “revenge bedtime procrastination” after shifts.
  • Delegate when appropriate.
  • Choose efficient workouts over long sessions.
  • Reduce alcohol (or other substances) as a coping tool.
  • Protect downtime without guilt.

6. Industry: Minimum effective movement

Industry is consistent physical movement that supports job performance and long-term durability. It recognizes that elaborate training plans often fail under shift work, while short, frequent bouts of movement succeed. The goal is to maintain strength, mobility, and cardiovascular health so the body can handle sudden demands and recover between shifts.

Supportive behaviors:

  • Train 20 to 30 minutes when time is limited.
  • Prioritize strength and joint health.
  • Walk frequently during and between shifts.
  • Stretch tight areas after physically taxing calls.
  • Train for movement patterns used on the job.
  • Keep workouts simple and repeatable.
  • Avoid long layoffs between sessions.
  • Accept maintenance phases as success.

7. Sincerity: Honest self-assessment

Sincerity is being radically honest with yourself about physical pain, fatigue, mood changes, and stress load. In first responder cultures, where toughness is often a huge priority, warning signs are often ignored until they become injuries, sleep disorders, or mental health crises. The virtue of sincerity emphasizes early recognition and course correction as professional responsibility.

Supportive behaviors:

  • Track energy levels across shifts.
  • Normalize personal check-ins with yourself, taking a “no B.S.” approach to self-awareness.
  • Monitor sleep quality with blunt candor.
  • Pay special attention to changes in mood or irritability.
  • Accept when rest is more productive than training.
  • Acknowledge pain before it becomes injury.
  • Be honest about indicators of burnout, and seek care early for nagging issues.
  • Avoid masking symptoms with stimulants.

8. Justice: Balancing service and self-care

For first responders, self-care is not a “nice to have,” but mandatory. First responders often prioritize others’ needs indefinitely while neglecting their own recovery. This imbalance shortens careers and strains relationships. Because of this, the virtue of justice makes it clear that if the job demands physical and emotional sacrifice, restoration must be treated as equally non-negotiable.

Supportive behaviors:

  • Schedule recovery just like you schedule shifts.
  • Use vacation and comp time intentionally.
  • When possible and practical, balance hard days with easier ones.
  • Protect off-duty time from “job creep.”
  • Advocate for reasonable workloads.
  • Accept rest as professional maintenance and avoid glorifying exhaustion.
  • Encourage peers to recover, too.
  • Seek treatment if you’re physically injured or struggling with your emotional or mental health.
  • Treat yourself with the same care you give others.

9. Moderation: Sustainable coping

Moderation addresses how first responders cope with stress, fatigue, and emotional weight. Maladaptive coping — whether through overtraining, overeating, overindulging in alcohol, or emotional withdrawal — often develops quietly. The virtue of moderation promotes coping strategies that relieve stress without creating new problems, supporting longevity rather than short-term escape.

Supportive behaviors:

  • Avoid using food as a primary coping mechanism.
  • Limit alcohol or other substances as stress relief.
  • Watch stimulant intake on night shifts.
  • Balance hard training with adequate recovery.
  • Rotate coping strategies, avoiding numbing behaviors as your default reaction to stress and trauma.
  • Use physical activity for regulation, not punishment.
  • Choose coping that supports sleep.
  • Work on recognizing unhealthy patterns early.

10. Cleanliness: Resetting the environment

First responders tend to carry the physical and mental residue of the job home with them. Cleanliness represents both physical hygiene and psychological transition between work and home. Simple environmental resets can help the nervous system recognize the threat period is over, protecting family relationships and reducing stress carryover.

Supportive behaviors:

  • Implement consistent end-of-shift rituals, showering and changing clothes soon after arriving home.
  • Use scent or music to mark transitions.
  • Clean gear regularly.
  • Tidy personal space before rest.
  • Keep sleeping areas free of work reminders.
  • Wash hands and face before meals.
  • Keep work and home clothing separate.
  • Avoid rehashing calls immediately at home.

11. Tranquility: Nervous system regulation

The virtue of tranquility represents a deliberate focus on calming a nervous system conditioned for constant alertness. Chronic fight-or-flight activation disrupts sleep, digestion, mood, and cardiovascular health. Focusing on tranquility helps emphasize practices that help the body return to its baseline, reducing stress.

Supportive behaviors:

  • Spend time outdoors regularly.
  • Reduce caffeine late in shifts.
  • Practice slow nasal breathing.
  • Limit media and news consumption, especially late at night.
  • Use calming routines before sleep, including physical stretching.
  • Create a consistent sleep environment.
  • Practice mindfulness, yoga, or prayer.

12. Chastity: Healthy boundaries in relationships

For first responders, chastity is best understood as protecting relationships through boundaries and intentional presence. Long shifts, emotional exhaustion, and exposure to trauma can strain connections at home. This virtue emphasizes quality over quantity and preserving emotional energy for the people who matter most.

Supportive behaviors:

  • Set boundaries around work talk at home.
  • Schedule protected family or partner time, prioritizing presence over productivity.
  • Avoid emotional withdrawal as default.
  • Communicate your needs clearly with loved ones.
  • Be honest about energy limitations.
  • Limit work-related texts, emails, and phone calls while off duty.
  • Repair conflicts quickly.
  • Seek professional relationship support when needed.

13. Humility: Adaptability and life-long learning

Humility is accepting that the job changes you — and that you must adapt to make it through a long career. Bodies age, stress accumulates, and coping strategies must evolve. This virtue encourages learning, seeking guidance, and adjusting expectations without shame. After all, sustainable service requires support.

Supportive behaviors:

  • Adjust training as your body changes, accepting physical limits without self-judgment.
  • Normalize growth through adaptation.
  • Release outdated expectations.
  • Update routines as schedules change.
  • Seek coaching or medical advice.
  • Learn from peers and mentors.
  • Value longevity over ego.
  • Stay open to mental health support, and don’t hesitate to ask for help when you need it.

Tracking Progress Without Making It a Chore

So, what’s the best way to implement this virtue-based “system”? Franklin tracked his virtues with a simple chart, making a notation when he fell short of his goal — not to shame himself, but to stay aware of his own progress.

First responders can do something similar without turning wellness into another full-time job:

  • Pick one virtue per week to focus on.
  • Share your goals with a trusted peer or family member.
  • Use a paper-based journal or a notes app on your phone to jot quick reflections at the end of each day.
  • Track “did I show up?” rather than outcomes.
  • Highlight specific wins — situations where you exemplified the week’s virtue in a really good way.
  • Revisit the list quarterly and adjust based on season or workload.

The key is awareness and repetition, not perfection.

Why Small Wins Matter

Big resolutions tend to fail because they demand everything at once. Incremental change works because it respects reality. By focusing on one slice of wellness at a time, first responders can make meaningful progress without burning out — or beating themselves up for being human.

Benjamin Franklin didn’t become a better person overnight, and neither will any of us. But by steadily whittling away at one area at a time, we can build healthier habits, longer careers, and better lives beyond the uniform.

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DAVID BAKER is senior manager of content marketing at Lexipol. He's a marketing communications professional with a strong background in writing, editing, and content development. Other areas of expertise include lead generation, digital marketing, thought leadership, and marketing analytics. When he's not wrangling content for the Lexipol blog, he is an avid road racer and trail runner. David has completed over 40 marathons, including four of the six “world majors” (Boston, Chicago, New York City, and Berlin). He recently completed a one-day rim-to-rim-to-rim crossing of the Grand Canyon. David is the proud father of a police officer son.

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